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Dear Brides: How many Bridesmaids Should You Ask To Be In The Wedding?
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When you get engaged and start the excitement of the planning process, one of the questions people start buzzing about who is going to be in your wedding party. Who should stand by your side? What’s the criteria for choosing? Some people choose their closest friends since grade school, some may say the more the merrier and pick friends from every stage of their life.

Personally, I think there should be a limit. At what number does it become too much? 10? 12? 14? One thing to consider is as you get older your friendships change and  your close friends evolve over time – they move away, get new jobs, get married  and have families, etc.. and that’s normal! Don’t  feel obligated to have everyone you’ve ever known throughout your life in your wedding. Take some time and think about will these women (or men) be there for you when you absolutely need them the most? Are these true friends and relatives that have been through the best and worst times and will they continue to be?

We often don’t think about it because we get wrapped up in the fun of having everyone included, but don’t forget that sometimes less is more. It is also a lot to ask of your friends – buy a dress/shoes/jewelry/hair/makeup, attend all the wedding events, travel fares for friends who live out of town… it starts to add up!  There are  ways to include your friends in your wedding planning process rather than having them stand next to you in a matching dress! Assign them a task – have them help assemble favors, read a passage or a poem during the ceremony or usher wedding guests. There are ways to have them be a part of the wedding without being a part of the wedding party.

Your wedding day is one of the most important days of your life, and when you look back on your wedding pictures 10 years from now you want to still be close to the people standing up there with you. Not only are your bridesmaids there to help you out on your day, but they also represent the people that are going to be there for you throughout your marriage so it’s important to choose carefully.

 

Photo by Leo Patrone

May you be inspired,

Leila

Insipred by Jenny Yoo for the Bride & Bridesmaids
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Bridesmaids dresses are possibly one of the most controversial details about a wedding as each bridesmaid has different taste and there are so many styles out there the search can be overwhelming!  One of my favorites dress designers is Jenny Yoo, she makes shopping for bridesmaids dresses FUN and EASY! You might be wondering why I loooooove Jenny Yoo so much…. for my wedding I searched and searched and searched for bridesmaids dresses and experienced all kinds of service. When I first walked into Jenny Yoo in LA I not only loved the dresses but I also had the best experience with their service and my in store consultant Ellen Yoo (Jenny’s sister!). They gave me exactly what I wanted and were so amazing to work with that I can’t help telling everyone how much I LOVE them!!

With customizable styles and colors you can’t go wrong picking out the perfect garb for your girls, you’ll be able to achieve the look you always envisioned. Not matter if you’re looking for an Anthropologie style or mix and match style you can achieve that look with Jenny Yoo. Chiffons, silks and cottons create an elegant and luxurious look and believe me when I say their attention to detail, cut and workmanship ensures each dress will be flattering on your bridesmaids. And you can’t forget about the bride! Jenny Yoo also offers gorgeous and timeless wedding dress styles. Here’s a few words from Jenny herself about her line:

“What is the collective vision of the bride and her bridesmaids? In a time where tradition is emphasized, weddings as a result, have become more intimate, holding a special meaning for both the couple and those who care for them. I have created a special line of bridesmaid and wedding dresses that evolve with the footsteps of today’s changing times.”

Chiffon:

Crinkle Chiffon:

Shantung:

Bobbinet:

Eastern Shantang (I DIE for this dress!!):

For the Bride:

Accessories:

Real Brides:

May you be inspired,

Leila