The day of love is almost here, and we’re helping you plan the perfect day for your partner. Today on the blog, we are putting an exciting twist on how you choose to spend your V-day. The first step is taking the Myers-Briggs personality test, and we’ll handle the rest. There are 16 different personality types, and we’ve listed the perfect Valentine’s Day for each one. So, no matter your personality type, you’ll be guaranteed to have a date idea that’s perfectly curated to you and your partner!
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ISTJ (The Logistician): A Romantic Dinner Date
The Logistician (ISTJ) has Introverted, Observant, Thinking, and Judging personality traits. They are loyal and prioritize building an emotional connection in a relationship. Additionally, they prefer structure. Also, they like the traditional dating style. An ISTJ on Valentine’s Day would love the familiarity of a classic dinner date. A wild night out on the town is not their thing. Instead, treat them with roses and a fancy dinner downtown to win over their heart.
INFJ (Advocate): A Couples Yoga Class
The Advocate (INFJ) has Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling, and Judging personality traits. The Advocate takes relationships seriously. As a result, it typically takes them a long time to find a partner. Additionally, the Advocates might hold out for the “perfect” person, so the expectations are higher. The Advocates crave an emotional and spiritual connection with their partner in relationships. They cherish what it means to become “one” with another person in mind, body, and soul. For example, an INFJ would enjoy a couples yoga class on Valentine’s Day. In other words, an INFJ would enjoy the spiritual connection, intimacy, and romance this activity would bring.
INTJ (The Architect): A Night at The Museum
The Architect (INTJ) is a person with Introverted, Intuitive, Thinking, and Judging personality traits. They approach romance strategically, with clear-cut goals and a plan for reaching them. Additionally, in relationships, they want honest communication. Love and emotions can be unpredictable, which is a challenge for them. Therefore on Valentine’s Day, an INTJ would enjoy visiting a museum. That is to say, a night where they can think and stay away from crowds would have their head over heels!
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ENFJ (A Protagonist): A Romantic Night Under the Stars
A Protagonist (ENFJ) is a person with Extroverted, Intuitive, Feeling, and Judging personality traits. They enjoy helping others and have creative values and ideas. In romantic relationships, they don’t settle for just anyone. Their standards are very high, and they appreciate that genuine “spark” with someone. They focus on long-term potential and want to establish a loving commitment with their chosen partner.
Additionally, Protagonists like to gain a sense of their partner’s dreams and aspirations. Above all, they are looking for a teammate for life. So on Valentine’s Day, an ENFJ would enjoy a date where they could have a deep and meaningful conversation with their partner. That being said, a romantic setup and a beautiful starlit night would be an absolute dream date for a Protagonist.
ISTP (A Virtuoso): A Hike or Rock Climbing Adventure
The Virtuoso (ISTP), is someone with Introverted, Observant, Thinking, and Prospecting personality traits. They typically have an individualistic mindset, pursuing goals without needing much external help. Additionally in romantic relationships, they need their space and nothing can be forced with them. For instance, they can come off as flighty since they live in the present, and are constantly looking for new activities.
Sometimes, they come off as if they don’t have feelings at all. This couldn’t be further from the truth. They actually have deep emotions and feelings that they just like to protect instead of express. So on Valentine’s Day, they would enjoy any activity that allows them to explore and get their hands dirty. If you or your significant other is an ISTP, take them on a hike or even rock climbing. The ISTP will be falling in love with the adventure and challenge these activities bring!
ESFJ (A Consul): A Concert
A Consul (ESFJ) is a person with the Extraverted, Observant, Feeling, and Judging personality traits. They are attentive and people-focused, and they enjoy taking part in their social community. In romantic relationships, they don’t do casual flings and need to know that their partner will be loyal to them. They prioritize creating understanding and building mutual respect.
Additionally, they need to know that their partner is loved and appreciated. So on Valentine’s day, an ESFJ would love a highly social and fun activity. There is nothing more high energy than going to see your favorite artist. This being said, show this personality type you care about by surprising them with tickets to their favorite artist. This special gift and fun activity will absolutely make their Valentine’s Day!
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INFP (The Mediator): A Romantic Night-In
A Mediator (INFP) is someone who possesses Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling, and Prospecting personality traits. They tend to be quiet, open-minded, and imaginative, and they apply a caring and creative approach to everything they do. In romantic relationships, a Mediator is a hopeless romantic and believes in the beauty of true love. They focus on more profound, more meaningful signals of compatibility. They are devoted, loyal, and passionate partners.
Additionally, they are always seeking to improve everything around them. So on Valentine’s Day, these hopeless romantics would love a romantic night-in filled with all of their favorite things. For instance, maybe their favorite home-cooked meal, a classic romantic movie, and some warmly-lit candles will set the mood for the evening!
ESFP (An Entertainer): A Karaoke Night
An Entertainer (ESFP) is a person with Extroverted, Observant, Feeling, and Prospecting personality traits. These people love rich experiences, engage in life eagerly, and take pleasure in discovering the unknown. In romantic relationships, they don’t value having a slow-growing foundation. Instead, they prefer unpredictable, fun, and exciting romantic experiences.
However, in relationships, they genuinely enjoy spending each moment with their partner and sharing exciting new adventures. So on Valentine’s Day, this personality type would love the romantic thrill of a karaoke night. Preferably at a karaoke bar downtown, the joy of performing live to their favorite song will have an ESFP falling in love!
ENFP (A Campaigner): Paint Pottery Together
A Campaigner (ENFP) has the Extraverted, Intuitive, Feeling, and Prospecting personality traits. They are indeed free spirits – outgoing, openhearted, and open-minded. With their positive, upbeat approach to life, they stand out in any crowd. Romantic relationships to a Campaigner are beautiful, exhilarating, and an opportunity for two souls to explore the world together and connect on the deepest of levels. They also deeply desire to share their lives with another person, so being single can be extremely hard for them.
So on Valentine’s Day, this personality type would love to share the creative and romantic experience of painting pottery. The passion put into the kind of pottery chosen and how to decorate it will spark the interest of a Campaigner. Additionally, learning more about their partner’s creative side will deepen a Campaigner’s love for them!
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ESTP (An Entrepreneur): A Spontaneous Trip
An Entrepreneur (ESTP) is someone with Extroverted, Observant, Thinking, and Prospecting personality traits. They tend to be energetic and action-oriented and love uncovering life’s opportunities. Entrepreneurs love to laugh and be the center of attention. Additionally, they prefer to live in the moment in romantic relationships and are enthusiastic yet unpredictable dating partners. They love to keep things exciting and seek ways to keep the relationship lively and fun. So on Valentine’s Day, keep things exciting and surprise an ESTP with a spontaneous trip to a surprise destination. The unpredictable thrill of this date will spice up this relationship!
ESTJ (Executive): Watch a Thrilling Documentary
An Executive (ESTJ) is someone with Extroverted, Observant, Thinking, and Judging personality traits. They are representatives of tradition and order. Additionally, they have a deep understanding of right, wrong, and socially acceptable. In romantic relationships, they value honesty and straightforwardness highly. They like to be clear about their intentions from the start and stick by them.
Even though they are predictable and stable partners, they enjoy going out and having fun. So on Valentine’s Day, an ESTJ would love to sit down and watch a fascinating documentary. The thrill of absorbing new information and provoking deep, thoughtful conversations would be an ideal night for them!
ENTJ (A Commander): Let Them Plan The Date
A Commander (ENTJ) is someone with Extroverted, Intuitive, Thinking, and Judging personality traits. People with this personality type embody the gifts of charisma and confidence. Additionally, they love a good challenge. They firmly believe that they can achieve any goal given enough time and resources. In romantic relationships, they take relationships seriously and are in it for the long haul. They love to take the lead and put a lot of energy into their dating relationships. They love boldly and are extremely growth-oriented. So on Valentine’s Day, an ENTJ would love nothing more than to take charge and plan the date themselves. Let them take the reins, and you’ll have a very happy ENTJ on your hands!
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INTP (A Logician): A Romantic Sunset Picnic
A Logician (INTP), is someone with the Introverted, Intuitive, Thinking, and Prospecting personality traits. They often lose themselves in thought, and their minds are constantly buzzing with ideas, questions and insights. Additionally, they are very imaginative and curious individuals, craving time alone to be with their thoughts. In romantic relationships, they value a partner who can challenge their ideas. They want to spend their life in pursuit of learning and growth. Additionally, they crave a genuine connection with someone and take their relationships seriously. So on Valentine’s Day, they would love nothing more than a romantic picnic. Take an INTP to a location that is beautiful, peaceful, and maybe even watch the sunset together. They will deeply enjoy the thoughtful conversations and emotional connection this evening will bring!
ISFJ (The Defender): A Day at The Winery
A Defender (ISFJ) is someone with Introverted, Observant, Feeling, and Judging personality traits. These people tend to be warm and unassuming in their steady way. The Defender personality type has strong analytical and people skills. They are typically found in lines of work with a sense of history behind them. Such as medicine, academics, and charitable social work.
In romantic relationships, they love to take care of their family and home. They take dating seriously and only enter into relationships that have a real chance of lasting a lifetime. Behind their shyness are powerful feelings. They are trustworthy, loving, loyal, and faithful partners. So on Valentine’s Day, a peaceful day at a winery would be perfect for them. As long as they are with their person, an ISFJ will be happy!
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ENTP (A Debater): A Dance Class!
A Debater (ENTP) is a person with Extroverted, Intuitive, Thinking, and Prospecting personality traits. They tend to be bold, creative, and witty individuals. For them, personal growth is critical. When it comes to romantic relationships, they are looking for ways to learn and grow with someone. Dating them is never a tedious experience, and they make use their enthusiasm and creativity to surprise their partners.
Their desire for self-improvement is great for their partners’ emotional development, and they are eager to work on this. So on Valentine’s Day, an ENTP would love to take a dance class with their partner. Learning a new skill and having fun together would be a dream date for this personality type.
ISFP (An Adventurer): A Sunrise Hot Airballoon Ride
An Adventurer (ISFP) is a person with Introverted, Observant, Feeling, and Prospecting personality traits. They tend to have open minds, approach life, new experiences, and people with grounded warmth. They are true artists and have a passion for discovery. In romantic relationships, they prefer to listen rather than express. If they are accepted for who they are, Adventurers are warm, enthusiastic partners.
Things are unlikely ever to grow stale; even the longest-term partners can be surprised by the secrets Adventurers keep. So on Valentine’s Day, an ISFP would love the new experience of a sunrise hot air balloon ride. They will be excited about the adventure, experience, and memorable moments this date will bring!
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Planning the perfect day is so much easier when you deeply understand your partner. Hopefully, our list of Valentine’s Day date ideas for every personality type will create memorable moments to last a lifetime!